About Jaeger & Flynn Associates, Inc.

Jaeger & Flynn Associates, Inc. founded in 1988, is a leading Upstate New York provider of insurance, employee benefits and human resources support services. Our full range of brokerage and consulting services include:

• Employee benefits, products and services
• Property and casualty coverage and services
• Supplemental and executive benefit plans and services
• Flex Account (FSA, DCAP, HSA, HRA) and COBRA administrative services
• Human Resources consulting and support services
• Wellness Services

Jaeger & Flynn Associates, Inc. (JFA) is not "Just a Broker" – Our team creates customized programs to meet individual business needs and workforce cultures, while seeking long-term, strategic solutions that are "outside the box".


Monday, February 11, 2013

Stages of Change - Action and Maintenance

Husband and I have been in our parenting class for 5 and 4 weeks, respectively.  I missed the first class caring for a sick child.  It has been an interesting journey.  Each parent is there for a different reason:  petiitioning for custody, court order (who knew?), personal growth, and family harmony.  We are there for personal growth and family harmony. 

The class has definitely been beneficial.  Sometimes, it reinforces what I am already doing and builds my confidence as a parent.  Other times, it helps coach me to deal with situations differently for a more positive and productive outcome.  My husband is having similar "a-ha" moments - and we are also learning new ways to communicate with each other (family harmony).

The key word last week was "cooperation".  I use that word a lot when dealing with our soon-to-be 5 year old.  Admittedly, she is more inclined to cooperate when she feels she has options (or the illusion of options as the case may be).  Who can blame her?  Don't we all like to think we have choices?

Two sessions remain and then we will be responsible to continue our growth on our own.